Ray Wootten's Stories & Anecdotes

Fishing at the Berkeley pier

I think we were around 11 years old when Jimmy Dean invited me to go fishing for sharks at the Berkeley pier. I spent the night at his house on the corner of Rose and Spruce. I remember lying awake in the front room anxious for the morning to come, as passing cars’ headlights danced across the ceiling. Everything was new and enchanting. The adventure had already begun. We got up very early in the morning and his mother drove us through the dark, empty streets of Berkeley down to the pier, where she left us. Near the entrance there was a light and some activity at what turned out to be the bait shop, where we bought some squid and headed out on the pier towards the lights of San Francisco. The waves lapped at the pilings and the cool, salty air blew in our faces as we walked, but we were protected by heavy jackets and navy wool caps rolled down over our ears. We went a long way out before Jimmy picked the place to fish. We could have gone further, even all the way to the gap where a fire had damaged the pier, but it could be dangerous. You could hook anything out there – a huge shark or stingray, maybe even a manta ray! We baited our hooks and cast our lines over the railing waiting for the sound of our sinkers splashing on the surface to gauge the distance as it was still too dark to see our lines and we could barely make out the dark, mysterious waters below. The Berkeley hills were black above us with twinkling lights that blended into the stars. Suddenly, a strike! My pole tugged violently and the line ripped through the water, leaving a faint white streak of foam in its trail. Jimmy warned me to haul him in quickly because these sharks would cut the line with their file-like backs as you tried to hoist them up and over the railing. But we landed it successfully and then confronted a new problem: what to do with it. It was a gray sand shark with a white belly, probably a couple of feet long, and strong. It flopped frantically around on the pier as I tried to kill it with my bait knife, wary of its savage teeth and slashing tail. In the midst of the commotion I experienced one of those strange moments when you feel opposite emotions simultaneously. Here I was trying to kill this tough, scary shark while at the same time, I secretly felt sorry for it as it fought for life. Fortunately there was an older, more experienced fisherman nearby who knew what to do. He grabbed the shark by its tail, swung it overhead, and clubbed it down on to the pavement, thus putting both the shark and me out of our misery. I hid my feelings of sadness and we continued to catch others, including at least one beautiful, spotted leopard shark. We watched the sun come up over the Berkeley hills and eventually carried our trophies back to the bait shop where, I believe, we sold them (though I couldn’t imagine anybody eating them). I don’t remember how we got home. Perhaps we took a bus, after all, we were now a couple of experienced fishermen returning from a successful adventure – we could do almost anything. We had proven ourselves. More likely though, Jimmy’s mother came and got us.

Dance Class

Jim Dean – Thank you for your kind words about my dancing, but we remember it differently.  For one, we did indeed receive dancing instruction at Oxford as well as at Hillside. I’m sure of this for it is indelibly etched in my memory from the time I got kicked out of my first class with Mr. Kazdan.  It was in that upper room in the northeast corner of the school. This was an after school function, and I think we even had to pay for the lessons. As I said, it was my very first class and, as if that weren’t intimidating enough, the class ahead of us was there also. We were in fifth grade, as Mrs. Moulton was there with us. All of the kids sat in a single row around the perimeter of the room with their backs to the wall and Mr. Kazdan lectured us on the etiquette of social dancing. To choose a partner, a boy was supposed to walk over and stand in front of the girl and ask, with a little bow, “may I have this dance?” The girl, as I recall, had the option of accepting or politely declining. However, when it was the girl’s turn to pick partners, the boys were not allowed to decline. I’m not absolutely sure about this last point, but I think that’s the way it went. The girls were instructed how to sit like ladies and the boys were told to observe all kinds of petty social niceties that don’t come easy for boys of that age. I mean, can you imagine say … Harland Bartholomew or Bruce Duncan--or me, for that matter…. Can you imagine any of us acting like perfect little gentlemen?
 
Well, sure enough, as soon as the lecture is over, Mr. Kazdan calls on me to stand up and go pick a partner. The very first! All alone, with the whole class watching, I’m supposed to go stand in front of a girl. “Sure, Mr. Kazdan, I’ll just announce to the whole school which girl I like. Are you kidding?” I was terrified and embarrassed. I wanted to disappear, but he wouldn’t let me off the hook. I couldn’t do it and he finally gave me the ultimatum of properly choosing a partner and asking her to dance or leaving. I left, humiliated. I had on my cool, pink and charcoal, tab collared shirt with blue corduroy pants and black loafers. My flat top was slicked on the sides and I wanted to dance, but I was humiliated. Mrs. Moulton chased after me as I went down the hall and attempted to console me. It was one of the few times that she and I seemed to be on the same side.

Bruce Duncan

I still tell people that I went to school with a genius. His drawing, and especially his knack for cartoons were so good that our teacher (Mrs. Rutherford) would reward the entire class for good behavior or some special achievement with a period of Bruce drawing on the blackboard. Think of that. What does it take to bring a class of sixth grade children to order? The promise of Bruce’s drawing could do it. That’s some mighty force. We would watch, enthralled, as he began making incoherent lines, maybe talking as he went. Maybe just making funny noises and movements as he labored delightfully at his art. All of a sudden one stroke of the chalk would bring it all together and the whole picture would come to life. And Bruce would be moving, creating, telling a story, making us laugh, making us wonder – how did he do it?
 
When we were in Mrs. Moulton’s class, Bruce was seriously burned in a home accident and was hospitalized for quite a long time. He sent us drawings and continued to entertain us from the hospital. I am sure the staff was also entertained and amused for I remember such scenes as Bruce lying bandaged in his hospital bed as nurses entered with giant hypodermic needles.

Singing

Music was a big deal at Oxford. In Mrs. Conklin’s Kindergarten class we sang about spring and daffodils and pollywogs. But as we matured, our songs also became more sophisticated. By the time we were in Miss Swain’s third and fourth grade classes, we were practicing syncopated rhythms. I remember an elaborate production of “Me and My Shadow” with the Conner twins dressed in white and black. Anyway, the ability to sing was highly regarded and could raise one’s stature throughout the school, much as being a good athlete. Unfortunately, I was not one of them. However, I did have my brief time in the limelight. In sixth grade, Mrs. Rutherford dubbed me “second soprano” and assigned me to an honored position standing next to her as she played the piano. And this was not a one time thing. For the rest of that semester, whenever we sang for practice, or even when we put on a show for our parents, I took that special position next to her while the rest of the group was up on that little stage in the cafeteria. My confidence soared and so, I fear, did my volume. As I look back on it, I wonder what was dear old Mrs. Rutherford thinking? I can only speculate. Maybe it wasn’t such a bad strategy after all. While I was at her side, my back was to the audience and they were spared my enthusiastic outpourings. Or was it that she hoped I might learn to stay on key if I was that close to the piano? In either case, she paid dearly as I was right in her ear. But she won me over with that move and I love her for her sensitivity and courage.

Mortadella

One day I sat next to Bill Stallone in the cafeteria. I can even remember which table and direction we were facing. We decided to trade sandwiches and I got the better deal. I gave him my 1950’s American staple - baloney – and in exchange I got my first taste of Mortadella. Wow, what a great taste! “Mort. . . a . . . what?”  He had to repeat it a few times for me. To this day, I still love Mortadella and the name always reminds me of Bill Stallone.

Song Flutes

The only useful function of song flutes came in the unremitting torture of parents, siblings and teachers. We even went to the Berkeley Community Theater where we combined with classes from other grammar schools, similarly armed and filled its vast acoustical chambers with whining toots from hundreds of those little, black, plastic, slug-shaped flutes from hell. I think it was an experiment by some enlightened school board official. I'll bet they never repeated it!
 

Assorted Memories

I remember the smells of the sawdust that the janitor (Mr. Grey, who came after Mr. Jones) used as he endlessly swept the hallways, and of the white paste which some kid ate on a rainy day session; the damp cement floors of the basement and the old pendulum clock that clicked in the corner; the sounds of the double doors at the Oxford Street entrance and the hollow noise of our foot steps when we reached the porch outside the cafeteria. I remember when we received our first ballpoint pens – red and blue and shaped like the old ones that we had to dip in the inkwell and blot, and when they installed the first fluorescent lights and the noise they made. I remember fastening straws together so we could blow bubbles in our milk cartons without bending over and how it tasted kind of sickening if you did it too long; my first taste of Mexican food when Miss Swain took us for lunch to a restaurant down on University Avenue because we were studying Mexico in the fourth grade; playing eraser tag; the tree planting ceremony which Mr. Rhodes presided over next to the pathway at the North side of the school yard; when termites attacked the wood chips under the bars and they changed to a black, rubberized cushion which smelled on hot days; how on your birthday, you could go to the principal’s office and the secretary would make you a paper crown with stars for each year. I remember how the lower terrace would puddle at the West side on rainy days and that if you picked the leaves from the bushes that grew on the other side of the chain link fence and dipped them into the puddles, it would make oily rainbows that danced on the water’s surface; their large, hard berries also made great ammo, but they were very sticky so you didn’t want to put too many in your pockets. Then there were those other bushes (I think by the Walnut – Oxford walkway) whose leaves you could fold into a whistle; sourgrass; grass bombs; forts in vacant lots; that awful smelling, phallic shaped fungus that Miss Swain found growing under her porch one day and brought to school to show us; the first day my eyes and throat burned from the air during recess and teacher called it smog; Mr. Rhodes swearing that the brown stains on his hands were caused by picking walnuts and not from smoking; and, of course, playing on our football team and our wonderful coach, Dick Bruhney; and how we almost went undefeated, even beating the dreaded Thousand Oaks. But we could never beat Jefferson.

More on Oxford football

As I mentioned earlier, we were coached by Dick Bruhney. He was a Cal student. He came to Oxford every day and was in charge of after school sports related activities (maybe he was called "playground director"?)  Football was his favorite. He created and diagramed plays for us which we memorized and practiced, so that when they were called out in huddle we all knew what to do. We had a six man (boy) team. This was touch football played on asphalt courts. The team I remember most was Bob Avakian as star quarterback and team captain. He was truly a gifted athlete - he could pass as well as run and was a brilliant strategist and a spirited leader. His father should also be mentioned here as I remember Spurgeon attending almost every game, standing on the sidelines and cheering us on, waving enthusiastically. Jerry Strong and I were halfbacks; Harland Bartholomew was at center, but his main contribution was ! to provide comic relief with his antics when we were in a tight spot and the tension was too great. Norm Randolph and Tom Brunk were ends. Tom was also our field goal kicker. Norm was very strong and, with his height and long arms, could snag the ball from some incredible distances. Jerry was consistently good in the clutch and brought a degree of polish to the team. When Bobby called for a "flank pass", for example, Jerry would run a few steps, fake one way, spin and cut to the opposite direction and receive the pass, all the while looking like a focused pro. Our most successful play was the “cross field pass.” Some other players I remember include, Alan Kent, Dave Gamba, Martin Stryker, Carroll Sinclair and maybe Scott Turner.

Saturdays we took on our rivals. If it was at their school, we would all pile into Dick's little gray primed Chevrolet convertible with wide white sidewall tires and bounce along sitting on laps, poking ribs and cracking jokes while we were supposed to be absorbing his pep talk. If we got too rowdy, he might swing his arm around to quiet us as he steered with his other hand on the "necker knob" attached to the steering wheel. Regardless of who we were playing, we took every game seriously, played hard and won more than our share. Once we trounced Cragmont 76-0.  For at least two seasons we were only defeated by Jefferson.